At home we go with 3+2 - not a defensive move but a move to make the field as big as possible when in possession, a move to get our best players on the field, a move to get our most dangerous assist players on the field, and a move to put another BMF in our box to counter their bigger forwards.
Drop Invisible, keep the same forward 3 and ask Ayew to play as a #10 ... he damn near does anyway.
With this we can win going away. BUT, we cannot play with just 10 men and hope that the luck goes with us. There are only so many big games where Grimes and Fulton can manage to also do the work of another.